We, each and every one of us, chooses for ourselves.  I know... you might say you didn't choose the meltdown someone had on your, or the accident or ticket or whatever happened...

When these things happen... on some level YOU DID CHOOSE THEM.  Why?  Because often, you or I are not paying attention... to what is important.

Maybe we missed something that is important, and the accident, ticket, loss of important item... whatever, is a reminder or wake up call.

When things are not smooth in your life... there is a reason.

I remember the first time I said NO to someone, who was used to me always saying yes.  They didn't take it well.  And still, I was choosing what was healthy for me.  I was declaring and sharing with other people where my healthy boundaries were...

When things are out of balance, or out of harmony, it is important for you to take the time to remember what is really important.  FEEL IT.  Own it.  Notice as you check in with yourself... what feels good and what does not.  As you do, you will know what is right for you... at this time.  That might be withdrawing or saying no.  That, in it's self is healthy.

Choose what is right for you, and empowers you and accept yourself for it...

Aloha and blessings, joy and light...  now and always,
Lillian Alexandria Pederson
Phone: (540) 588-0788